Comments on: In-home DNA test says he is not the father, what now?

By: shyanne

shyanne — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:58 +0000

i’m a little confused. if i have it right..it sounds like you have a son with daddy#1, that you are no longer married to, a daughter with daddy#2, who you wish not to recognize and that you are engaged to man#3 who is not the father of wither child. am i right?
so then, daddy#1 must pay support for your son.
you cannot lie (perjure) the court about your daughter. her father (daddy#2) has rights to see, support and help raise that child. even if HE choses not to be a part of her life, he still must help with financial support (education, etc)
i don’t know about man#3 and adoption..i think if the other children’s fathers agree to it, he can adopt them and give them his name..
i also have never heard of an "in home dna test". is that for real?

By: the_silverfoxx

the_silverfoxx — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:58 +0000

d.n.a tests have to be done by labs no such thing as a home .d.n.a test sorry but it.s true

By: beckaboo5

beckaboo5 — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:58 +0000

look i just went trough this so this is what i did in the state of pennsylvania.. u need a lawyer. ur laywer will get u a court date and on that date u will have to ask the judge on why u want her last name changed and what does the father have to say. u may have to tell them the father name or u could say that u dont know who the father is and that u want ur fiance to be her daddy. that is what my husband did.. u just need to get a judge and breathe… ur fiance does not have to adopted her to have her take his last name..but if u want him to adopted her u may need another court date for that.. but good luck and if u need help let me know i just went through this… my self….

By: not.here.2.make.friends.

not.here.2.make.friends. — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:58 +0000

in my state, the HUSBAND is responsible for children concieved in the marriage. whether it was his sperm or not. its called like the child protection something or other. It varies by state. they are voting to get it repealed but for now it stands.
but i dont think thats MORAL go after the DADDIES for the respective child supports.

By: kazball04

kazball04 — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:58 +0000

Its very hard to do a non judgemental answer when you are doing this?? How can you lie about something like this. You are being extremely unfair on both the men, and even worse, your daughter. Grow up, tell the truth, and maybe next time you have on and off relationships, use protection so children arent the victims of your lifestyle.

By: Rick

Rick — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:57 +0000

Wow, I feel sorry for your next ex husband.

By: mafiosu

mafiosu — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:57 +0000

Just how reliable is a home DNA test anyway? I don’t think I have even heard of one. I would get a REAL paternity test done before I went through everything you are saying you want to do. Ever heard the saying "Let sleeping dogs lie"? If you think you are overwhelmed just think how your child is going to feel 18 years from now when you have to tell her about what a mess you made of your life before she was born. Unless of course you plan on lying to her too.

By: jessica23

jessica23 — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:57 +0000

dont ever do that go get the real one done

By: DJ M

DJ M — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:57 +0000

so you going to lie to the non biological dad about the child being his and you want to remove the rights of the biological dad. thats very very low

By: Mike

Mike — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:50:57 +0000

why would anyone marry you is beyond me……………..